Thanks for the recommendation of the book
Games Indians play.
“why we are the way we are”
From V. Raghunathan.

What should have been a quick read has opened up a Pandora’s box
for me, regularly reflecting on the examples I have within my own family.
A must for anyone who wishes to understand the psych of us Indians.
I love his sarcasm, humour yet found it also provokingly sad.
One of the analogies he uses to describe us (Indians) is “squealers” I found this funny, btw Rene is it true the dance-bars in Bangalore (where women for a small fee dance or slap men) had to close down, rumour has it they didn’t slap hard enough for you’re liking :-)
no, no indians don’t like squealing on their mates :-)